Bride disinvites 25 people from her wedding after they decry her Halloween theme as 'satanic': 'They had two years for complaints'

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    AITA for uninviting 25 family members to my wedding 6 weeks to show time?
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    I have had this Halloween Wedding planned for two years. The venue | wanted has a wait list. All the sudden my mom and grandma decided the wedding was satanic and want me to make last minute changes.
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    I told my mom and grandma a firm no. Two years my family has known about this and because I have told them know half my mom's side thought they would be cute and say they aren't coming in a random power struggle.
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    I told them fine and canceled everyone invitations who complained or backed my mom or grandma on this. One of my sisters acted like she stepped out of brides maid duty so I replaced her. It was about 25 people that decided to act stupid at less than 6 week mark so I sent out uninvited invitation and I sent out new QR codes for those attending and the venue will check in by only those to let people in.
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    My aunt (who was one of the uninvited) told me people are allowed to disagree with me and that doesn't mean can pull an invitation from a wedding that they have made plans to attend.
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    I told my aunt they had two years for complaints but saying you are not going at 6 weeks before my wedding is and everyone around and found out I will not be bullied by my family over this.
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    Historical-Goal-3786 21h ago . NTA. Sounds like a blast. Which bride are you dressing as?
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    Brilliant_Peace9682 OP • 21h ago A light blue corpse bride dress and then I'm gonna have light blue hair.
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    Low_Cook_5235 • 17h ago I had a Halloween wedding, the Hallowedding as we called it. The invites had a pic of a traditional white tiered cake, but the little topper was Frankenstein and His Bride. We had a box of masks if people really didnt want to dress up. DJ dressed like Wolfman Jack and we had a cauldron of spiked punch with dry ice so it smoked. It was a blast and we're still married 20 yrs later.
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    RickRussellTX 21h ago OP's spine grew 3 sizes that day. Tell your aunt that you only want people at your wedding who fully support you and your new spouse. NTA
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    • WhereWeretheAdults 21h ago NTA. Mom and gma decided to intentionally blow up your wedding. Then they rallied their little army to put pressure on you. I would wager a bet this isn't the first time you've had a run-in with them over them trying to control your life
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    Mystyque ⚫ 21h ago • NTA, They already said they're not coming, so why are they complaining now?
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    Invisible_Target 19h ago Because they were bluffing to get their way and now they're all shocked pikachu face that op said "ok then don't come." It's honestly hilarious. Maybe they'll learn not to say they don't mean.
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    • Material_Gas_2429 21h ago NTA. You've spent two years planning your wedding, and it's your special day. It's understandable to feel frustrated when people try to impose their beliefs last minute. If they weren't on board from the start, they should've spoken up sooner. You did what you had to do to protect your peace
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    BlackCatWitch29 20h ago . NTA and congrats on having a lovely shiny spine Your wedding so your choices of decor, venue etc.
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    Anyone who wants to pull these kinds of shenanigans with 6 weeks til the Big Event after having had 2 whole years (total of about 104 weeks) to do this are bullies of the worst kind and you don't need people like that in your life.
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    Halloween is based on Samhain, a celebration of the beloved dead. But way back when, the christian. missionaries converted it (after being given strict instructions to do so by the Pope) to get more people to convert from paganism. There is nothing satanic about Halloween/Samhain or about haunted buildings so your mum and grandma are woefully mis-/un-educated on this.
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    Fearless_Hippo_1913 21h ago Need more info: Did all the people you uninvited approach you and complain about the venue? What did your bridesmaid not do to get cut out?
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    Brilliant_Peace9682 OP 21h ago • It was mainly over uninviting my mom and grandma the family saw it as disrespectful or something like the. The venue is a historical haunted location that does weddings.

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